Posted by Write In My Journal on October 30th, 2008 filed in Hippie, Student, Woman

It was just after 7:00 am and Crystal was standing behind my sister and me in line at a university bookstore. They were having a sale on Apple products (educational discount plus no sales tax!) and we were both picking up new laptops. She asked me about the preinstalled software on the machines she was buying. Being a bit of a geek, I’m always happy to talk tech, and so our conversation began.

Crystal is getting her undergrad in exercise and sports science and will pursue her master’s in the same. She teaches yoga and is an avid outdoorswoman. When I mentioned that I’d never skied in Utah (something nearly blasphemous when living in this state) she asked, slightly baffled, “What do you do if you don’t spend time outdoors?”

I never would have guessed that Crystal had the difficult background she wrote about based on interacting with her. She has been proactive overcoming her trials and is now trying to help others do the same.

If I had to come up with a single word to describe Crystal it would probably be genuine. She’s one of those people who makes whoever she’s around feel important. Crystal would be a good friend: fun, sincere, and outgoing. It was a pleasure to have met her.

Person in line @ Apple sale:

My father died in a hang gliding accident the day before I was born. Before age 10 I attended a retreat in which I burned a decorated branch that symbolized my fear of my mother’s death. In my teens I exposed myself to as much sensory stimulation in search of something that would draw me into the present moment – this extended into my early 20s in the form of substances. I spent 2 months in an isolated population which allowed me to begin a longer process of feeling OK w/ being alone.

I’ve continued to take particular actions that lead towards assisting others with fear of loneliness but sometimes I forget and feel lost. What’s beautiful is that there are always reminders bringing me back to self and what I feel comfortable dedicating my life to. When ego or the external edges of life sneak in my confidence is blurred. Being humble in my lack of understanding of information and life keeps me young – curious – playful and loving. It is through suffering that I have arrived and continue to arrive repeatedly. I am not religious specifically but I learn most when my connection with spirit is strong.

I often feel people should have an autobiography to hand others upon initial meeting so that there is less time spent on potentially superficial interactions – then realize the process of love and compassion comes in all forms. I don’t enjoy talking about myself but I end up there anyways.

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17 Responses to “Crystal”

  1. Ali S. Says:

    An awesome entry! I love the last paragraph the most. To rid ourselves of the superficial interactions when meeting people. I am awed by her perseverance to be a better person. Something I wish I could learn more of doing for myself. Be more confident and genuine. Thank You. :)

  2. yosibreak Says:

    Beautiful. She connected with me. Thanks.

  3. Fit Bottomed Girls Says:

    Wow, that was pretty amazing…what a beautiful and strong woman.

  4. bon Says:


  5. Margi Says:

    Awesome. What a neat person to meet.

  6. The Grocer Says:

    I am impressed with your ability to sniff out people who have the presence of mind to write something meaningful.
    I’m sure I’d just babble, another super entry.

  7. nadu Says:

    wow… this is really nice straight and nice

  8. JackDirt Says:

    Fantastic entry. The phrase never judge a book by its cover comes to mind. Very insightful woman and motivated. Thank you for sharing.

  9. Amy Says:

    Yet another wonderful and insightful entry.

  10. Robert Says:

    Wonderful website – awesome entries.

  11. Summer Says:

    It’s amazing how honest complete strangers can be with one another.

  12. n Says:

    These people can be honest precisely *because* they are writing to strangers. Anonymity can work wonders.

    By the way, this was a beautiful find, David. Thank you for sharing.

  13. Burt Says:

    What a great idea for a Web site. Thank you!

  14. Melissa Says:

    Oh man, this is fantastic. I can see this site taking off to a huge degree, like PostSecret (well, nothing might ever be that huge as it has a place of its own, but you get my drift).

    Love this entry. I identify with her very much.

  15. Mik Says:

    An awesome entry indeed, here via Stumble Upon! I added you to my blogroll and will endeavor to read more of your posts.

    An avid Moleskine notebook user too.

  16. Yamada Says:

    What can I say? In this crazy world people are coming and going without a greeting, without a single sign of seeing ourselves, people.
    It is one of my favorite image that we are bugs without tentacles. You sometimes–out of inattentiveness, out of indifference–bump into person and do not apologize, ‘cos it’s our contract that “we’re deprived of tentacles”…

    Am I be too much appraising if I said out here on your page, we can see what the whole “technology” are originally meant for.


  17. Sean Says:

    What a cool person with such profound insight.